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			<title><![CDATA['So You Think You Can Dance': Tap Out Night]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p><span title="smalltext"><strong>'So You Think You Can Dance': Tap Out Night </strong></span> 			<br> 			<div id="pid_577" title="padding: 5px 0pt;"> 				<div>   <p><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13as4qm8j/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__11/realityrocks-571225386-1256607513.jpg%3FymZM.GCDY2_v0KjE"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__11/realityrocks-571225386-1256607513_thumb.jpg?ymZM.GCD4lrDF_oP" /></a>Earlier this season, the producers and judges of <em>So You Think You Can Dance </em>made a really </p></div></div></p>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span title="smalltext"><strong>'So You Think You Can Dance': Tap Out Night </strong></span> 			<br> 			</p><div id="pid_577" title="padding: 5px 0pt;"> 				<div>   <p><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13as4qm8j/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__11/realityrocks-571225386-1256607513.jpg%3FymZM.GCDY2_v0KjE"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__11/realityrocks-571225386-1256607513_thumb.jpg?ymZM.GCD4lrDF_oP" /></a>Earlier this season, the producers and judges of <em>So You Think You Can Dance </em>made a really big deal about there being three tap dancers in the season 6 top 20, a <em>SYTYCD</em> first. So it was odd that last night--when the public voting&nbsp;was preempted AGAIN due to stupid, boring baseball--the judges chose to send home two of the tappers, Bianca and Phillip, so soon.</p>   <p>I kind of understand their decision. While I respect tap dancing as an art form and a skill that takes years to master, and Bianca and Phillip are definitely masters of tap, they did struggle with other dance styles this week. And in my opinion, tap dancing just isn't all that <em>interesting</em> to watch. I knew when the three tappers--Bianca, Phillip, and Peter--did that ho-hum tap number on the "Meet The Top 20" episode that they sadly would not last long on this show. And now there's only one tapper left standing--or tapping, specifically--and that's poor Peter. </p>   <p>I do feel bad for Bianca and Phillip, however. I found Bianca's solo last night to be dull, but enjoyed her Southern church dance with Victor; conversely, I cringed when Phillip nearly dropped partner Channing like a "sack of potatoes" (Nigel Lythgoe's words) during their clumsy samba, but I was entertained by his solo. Plus Bianca had been dreaming of being on <em>SYTYCD</em> for ages (she auditioned three seasons in a row for making it on) and Phillip lost his father only a week and a half ago. This was a tough elimination night.</p>   <p>But what's done is done--so with that out of the way, here are my assessments of last night's nine couple dances, listed in order from (in my opinion) best to worst:</p>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13ad7pgts/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-209726814-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDss5TPB5e"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-209726814-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCD0BX8n6tD" /></a>Kathryn &amp; Legacy: Contemporary</strong><br> I've been hard on B-boy Legacy in the past, and I've even questioned his inclusion in the top 20 at all. But all my doubts were silenced after his stunning star turn in this gorgeous, Stacey Tookey-choreographed routine to Patti LaBelle's "Steps Away." The man gave me Deeley chills. I had no idea this street tough had the ability to be so tender, so emotional, so sweet, so capable of pointing his feet, yet still so strong. Kathryn of course held her own and danced like a dream--but that was to be expected, as she's a contemporary dancer by trade. Legacy, however, was the revelation here. Judge Adam Shankman described the routine as "incredibly special" and called Legacy a "different man" who'd "turned a corner." Adam was even beaming as he declared, "There are no words to describe how proud I am." Fellow judge Mary Murphy declared Legacy's growth on the show to be the fastest in the series' history, said the routine raised the hair on her arms, and praised both dancers' total "abandonment." And Nigel Lythgoe likened the piece to Kupono and Kayla's Mia Michaels-choreographed "Addiction" piece from last season, and said this was the routine that would ensure that Kathryn, one of the season's more overlooked contestants, would never be under the radar again. I concur: Legacy and Kathryn were my favorites last week and this week, and they are both definitely ones to watch.</p>   <br><br><br><br>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13amq85rk/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-815602582-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDFYvlNorC"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-815602582-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCDXu_npNHR" /></a>Mollee &amp; Nathan: Bollywood</strong><br> The cutest, and youngest, couple on the show went straight to Molleewood last night with the help of choreographer Nakul Dev Mahajan, and they dazzled like a true leading man and lady. Nathan's dizzying and seemingly endless spin while brandishing a sword was like something out of an Olympic ice-skating routine, and his flat-back collapse, something that could almost paralyze a lesser dancer, was executed faultlessly. Little blonde spitfire Mollee smoldered like a sexy mature woman, not a teen girl, and she most definitely&nbsp;brought the drama. Adam called them "such an exciting couple" and said Mollee "came into her own," embracing stillness and maturity. Mary understandably whooed a lot, and Nigel described the routine as "tremendous."&nbsp;Yes, a&nbsp;tremendous dance by a little couple.</p>  <br> <br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13ar9c5v7/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-349993006-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDtt_rDG2k"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-349993006-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCDi47LPbQ_" /></a>Karen &amp; Kevin: Hip-Hop</strong><br> Choreographers Tabitha &amp; Napoleon always know how to create a hawt routine, but this one was REALLY smoking.&nbsp;In this&nbsp;car-shop hip-hop number set to Dorrough's "Ice Cream Paint Job," Karen surprisingly stole the show from hip-hop dancer Kevin, looking like the kind of pinup model who'd be lying across a race car in glossy photo straight out of a calendar on a grease monkey's wall. Damn! She danced as good as she looked, too. Adam was floored, literally, when he shouted, "Ah-oooo-ga!" and fell off his chair--twice. Mary put both of them on the Hot Tamale Train (woo woo!), and told Karen she had the "It Factor." And Nigel likened Karen to an invertebrate due to her rubbery undulating talents. Karen just may be this season's Janette, after this sexy number. </p> <br><br><br><br><br><br>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13ai2489a/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-200617244-1257397580.jpg%3FymMF_JCDx6_XbpKT"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-200617244-1257397580_thumb.jpg?ymMF_JCDwAcUVLDd" /></a>Ellenore &amp; Ryan: Argentine Tango</strong><br> Ellenore = Elegance. Seriously, look up "elegance" in Webster's and you'll likely see Ellenore in her Jazz Age flapper dress and gamine hairdo (Nigel compared her to the legendary Cyd Charisse), making this Miriam Larici &amp; Leonardo-choreographed Argentine tango look effortless and graceful <em>even</em> after her flapper dress caught in her heel. She and her partner, ballroom dancer Ryan, just kept on dancing, and honestly I didn't even realize such a wardrobe malfunction had occurred until the judges pointed it out, praising them for not breaking character, concentration, or the "laser-like connection" between them. As Mary (who gave them a standing ovation) put it, they "made it work." Did they ever!</p> <br><br><br><br>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=139sls3pd/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-56520875-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDobOE1cdx"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-56520875-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCDvxgqJMLI" /></a>Pauline &amp; Peter: Contemporary </strong><br> A zany Van Gogh-inspired routine created by Wade Robson, in which Pauline and Peter portrayed figures in a painting come to life, I personally felt the dancers were a bit too restrained here, not quite zany <em>enough</em>. Mary was a bit underwhelmed too, saying a dance like this would not take the couple anywhere in this competition, and Nigel criticized Peter's high, tight shoulders (apparently buff Peter works out too much). But Adam praised Peter for being "1000 percent committed"...and as the only tapper who survived eliminations last night, he obviously did all right. </p> <br><br><br><br>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13a912f6j/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-180024494-1257397581.jpg%3FymOF_JCDNCL99BTI"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-180024494-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymOF_JCDIEkx4QGz" /></a></strong></p>   <p><strong>Bianca &amp; Victor: Broadway</strong><br> This is the Tyce Diorio routine that sent Bianca home and put Victor in the bottom four, but I honestly don't think this was the <em>worst</em> dance of the night. Set to "Maybe God Is Tryin' To Tell You Something" from musical production of <em>The Color Purple</em>, this was a church revival number that required Bianca and Victor to cut loose and give themselves over to a higher power--the power of God, the power of dance, what have you--and yes, like Pauline and Peter, they were a little too reserved. This dance didn't quite have the judges shouting, "Hallelujah"! Adam admitted they danced it well but they didn't "lose it"; Mary said the routine "didn't go there" and there was not enough "abandonment" in their dancing; and &nbsp;Nigel griped that their characters not strong enough. It's too bad, because this dance did have potential, as did Bianca. </p>   <p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13ao183bk/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-957494967-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDePo0rtm4"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-957494967-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCDrgX8UJIO" /></a></strong></p> <br><br><br><br>   <p><strong>Ashleigh &amp; Jakob: Viennese Waltz</strong><br> In this Tony Meredith &amp; Melanie Lapatin-choreographed wedding dance to "At Last" by Etta James, these two demonstrated such sweet, natural chemistry that I might have assumed Jakob was Ashleigh's real-life husband instead fellow semi-finalist Ryan, to whom she's actually married. (I wonder if Ryan was jealous at all?) This was a lovely routine, if not too memorable, although Mary called it "absolute perfection" and Nigel said Ashleigh was quickly proving all doubters wrong (Ashleigh was an alternate, not originally chosen for the top 20). I agree with Nigel: Ashleigh is growing on me, too.</p>   <br><br><br><br><p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13a68d9im/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-215638656-1257397581.jpg%3FymNF_JCDi0iBGM0I"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-215638656-1257397581_thumb.jpg?ymNF_JCDWeM9X_ZU" /></a></strong></p>   <p><strong>Noelle &amp; Russell: Hip-Hop</strong><br> Krumper Russell is one of my favorites this season, and I'm still furious that he was in the bottom four last week. He wasn't in the bottom this week (although his partner Noelle was), but if he had been, it would have made more sense, as this gimmicky Jamal Sims routine really fell flat. However, that was neither Russell nor Noelle's fault. This routine was a depiction of a feisty tennis match, and it was just too literal for me, with their tennis-racket props distracting from their talents and getting in their way; both dancers&nbsp;fared much better when they were able to set their rackets down for a bit. Adam said the characters and choreography overwhelmed them, and Nigel said they never quite got hold of the quick steps. The only bright spot was that Noelle, who'd been sidelined with a knee injury last week, had recovered enough to return to the competition, and Mary said Noelle danced so well that her weakness was undetectable. But that still wasn't enough to keep Noelle out of the bottom four. </p>   <br><br><br><br><p><strong><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=13a4pmmcl/&#42;&#42;http%3A//a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-565054857-1257397580.jpg%3FymMF_JCDdUVxSohd"><img src="http://a323.yahoofs.com/ymg/realityrocks__12/realityrocks-565054857-1257397580_thumb.jpg?ymMF_JCDAcJO67dd" /></a></strong></p>   <p><strong>Channing &amp; Phillip: Samba</strong><br> Ooh boy. Well, Channing looked hot, but overall this routine was one hot mess. The whole dance was awkward, especially whenever they tackled tricks; I held my breath and prayed for Channing's safety every time Phillip lifted her in the air and seemed on the verge of dropping her headfirst onto the stage floor. This was very tough routine, filled with advanced lifts and spins, and this couple was just not cut out for it. Their struggle was very obvious, and they didn't even deny this to the judges. Adam praised their teamwork--they got through it together, somehow--but that was not enough. In the end, only one of them, Channing, got through to the top 16.</p> </div> 			</div><p> 			 			&lt;!-- start: postbit_signature --&gt;</p> <hr align="left" width="25%" size="1"><p> <a href="http://www.alphasoftgroup.com/">http://www.AlphaSoftGroup.com</a> - Cheap affordable website design, website hosting, Domain name registration </p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Trust Your Gut!</title>
			<link>http://www.fabay.com/daviedoves/blog/trust-your-gut/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[<p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">Recently, I had the incredible opportunity to be interviewed for a Canadian women's magazine for an article on "Women's Intuition". I was honoured and</font></p>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">Recently, I had the incredible opportunity to be interviewed for a Canadian women's magazine for an article on "Women's Intuition". I was honoured and delighted to share my thoughts on this timely and important topic, and I thought I'd share with you gals what I came up with in this article.</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">The whole concept of "women's intuition" may seem somewhat medieval and goofy to some of us; but I believe there's a good reason that this concept has stuck around for so long without being discarded like so many frivolous ideas of the past. And after working with so many women and hearing countless stories of "gut feelings" or an "inner knowing" usually not listened to or taken seriously, <strong>often with disastrous consequences</strong>, I think we may be able to gain something by revisiting the topic.</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">As I am apt to say over and over again, women often don't listen to themselves and to their internal wisdom.<br> This, my dear sisters, is <strong>a real shame</strong> as we are wise beyond belief! If only we could learn to trust our own thoughts and feelings about things! Can you imagine for a minute what it would be like if all the women in the world completely trusted themselves and their "gut feelings" about things? A world wherein women never second-guessed themselves because they had complete faith that they knew what they were doing? I have a feeling that there would be a lot less of the "B.S. Factor" running the world; that's for darn sure&#8230;</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">How many times have you been dating someone and as you sit there with them; there are red flags screaming for your attention like, "He's not listening to me" or "She isn't asking me anything about myself", etc. and you consciously choose to ignore them because you really want "this one to work out, dammit."</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">Red flags, by the way, are a sure sign that our intuition is in fine form and is trying to tell us something if only we would listen to it! Red flags in the relationship department are those internal "watch out" or "I don't like this" or "that didn't feel good" messages we receive when we're getting to know someone; they are warning us that something is amiss and that we'd be smart to take the warning(s).</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">Goddess knows, I've deliberately made myself totally oblivious to many a red flag because I thought I knew what I wanted and I was going to get it, come hell or high water. Guess what? I got the hell <strong>and</strong> the high water! I've since wisened up and now do my best to sincerely listen to what my intuitive voice is telling me before making any big decision. I'm not entirely sure how the two are related, but since I started listening to my intuition, I've managed to start an RRSP fund &#8212; go figure! I think it may have something to do with so few "impulse buys" when compared to my old self&#8230;</font></p><p title="text-align: justify;"><font size="2">My intuition is telling me that I need to end this e-zine and have a cup of tea&#8230; what is your intuition telling you?</font></p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 14:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[The Two Types of Wisdom & How to Spot the Difference]]></title>
			<link>http://www.fabay.com/charox/blog/the-two-types-of-wisdom-how-to-spot-the-difference/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[<div id="body"><p><font size="2">According to scripture, there is spiritual wisdom and there is earthly wisdom. One builds up, creates healthy living organisms, and the other debilita</font></p></div>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="body"><p><font size="2">According to scripture, there is spiritual wisdom and there is earthly wisdom. One builds up, creates healthy living organisms, and the other debilitates and destroys. But how do we know which is which?</font></p><p><font size="2">Spiritual wisdom comes directly from God and it's sole aim is to improve the lot of man on earth. You gain spiritual wisdom by putting on the garments of righteousness. This is a scriptural way of saying that you must walk in faith by following Christ and the disciplines of the Lord. Also, reading the Bible on a regular basis, praying, meditating and fasting, are all ways of improving your wisdom channel. The result of this type of knowledge is that you always make right decisions, even when other people are advising against them. The decisions that are influenced by spiritual wisdom involve earthly matters, for instance the best way to invest your money, or the best time to change careers. So spiritual wisdom is a way of ensuring a smooth passage through our turbulent earthly journey. As spiritual wisdom is connected to perfect love, it is also a way of overcoming fear. Phobias of all kinds, even fear of being alone or fear of death, are banished when you have a wisdom mindset. And when you are in the midst of difficulties, wisdom helps you to maintain an even keel, without panicking.</font></p><p><font size="2">In contrast, earthly wisdom has none of the benefits of being linked to perfect love. You can be the biggest egghead on the planet, but if you do not have any notion of spiritual wisdom you will not achieve the peace and tranquillity of the true wise man. You will be dogged by feelings of frustration even in the middle of success; you will not be able to appreciate even the good things that happen in your life. You will find nothing is good enough or hits the mark. At worst you will make disastrous life decisions based on foolishness.</font></p><p><font size="2">Broadly speaking the noble organs, the heart and the brain, are the receivers of good, spiritual wisdom. These are the areas that are "activated" when enlightenment arrives. The baser organs from the stomach down to the groin, are the areas that respond to foolish earthly wisdom. The heart and the brain also control the health of the body as a whole, so a steady stream of connectivity with the divine ensures good health. The opposite is true of the baser organs; the constant feeding of earthly appetites leads to a deterioration of the body's ability to protect itself.</font></p></div>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>What is an African?</title>
			<link>http://www.fabay.com/daviedoves/blog/what-is-an-african/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[<P title="text-align: justify" mce_title="text-align: justify"><font size="2"><img src="http://www.jamati.com/online/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/ahmedahmedwhite.jpg" alt="African or not?" /></FONT></P><P title="text-align: justify" mce_title="text-align: justify"><BR></P><P ti</font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P title="text-align: justify" mce_title="text-align: justify"><font size="2"><img src="http://www.jamati.com/online/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/ahmedahmedwhite.jpg" alt="African or not?" /></FONT></P><P title="text-align: justify" mce_title="text-align: justify"><BR></P><P title="text-align: justify" mce_title="text-align: justify"><font size="2">CNN is currently inspiring dialogue about what makes someone an African-American as opposed to an African, African-American.  There has been debate amongst Africans about what an African is.  Is it someone who is born in Africa, or can someone who is born to African parents in the diaspora, but never raised in Africa, still claim that they are African?<BR><BR>Africans define themselves by who their parents are for the most part, although there are some who feel that if they are born in the diaspora, they are no longer African, just born to African parents.  Even more hotly contested, are the people who have one African parent.  Some claim that if they are not full-blooded Africans, they are not worthy of the title.  The latest Playboy playmate, Ida Ljungqvist, is half Tanzanian and half Swedish and was born and raised, for a while, in Tanzania, yet people claim that she isn&#8217;t African.  Why must anyone have to choose a side of their heritage?  And if they don&#8217;t deny it, why deny it of them? White and Asian Africans also find that they are constantly called upon to prove that they are African.  How many generations of African-born do they need to be to finally be called African?<BR><BR>Africans who are born abroad and try to claim their African heritage sometimes meet great hostility from Africans born and raised in Africa.  Is it jealousy?  If they claim not to be Africans, they are met with derision and jeers.  If they claim Africa, the response is almost spat out that they are &#8216;not really African&#8217;.  What are your thoughts on the matter?  What makes an African, an African?  At what point do they stop being considered African.  How many generations born away from home qualify one to be non-African (or an African if born in Africa)?<BR><BR>I am an African, born in the Diaspora, raised on the continent, and proud to say I am African.  There is no richer heritage one can have, and I am proud to be a descendant of it.</FONT><BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Where are they now?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">The reality show was first introduced to Nigerians on a very personal level, with Big Brother Africa, in 2003.<BR><BR>Since then, more than twenty </font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">The reality show was first introduced to Nigerians on a very personal level, with Big Brother Africa, in 2003.<BR><BR>Since then, more than twenty reality shows have been aired on local and satellite networks. The most popular being the Big Brother series, although only one edition of Big Brother Nigeria has run.<BR><BR>Others are the Next Movie Star, Amstel Malta Box Office (AMBO), Star Quest, Face of Africa, West Africa's Top Model, Kids Alone, Survivor Africa, and Idols West Africa.<BR><BR>Literally, thousands of contestants have either auditioned or participated in reality shows nationwide (and at times continent-wide). Some made lasting impressions on viewers-with positive, heartwarming and just plain hilarious outcomes.<BR><BR>No matter how impressive (or not) a participant has been, they tend to drop out of sight once the competition is over and the last party has been thrown. Take Lindiwe Allamu, for instance, the Project Fame winner in 2004. Her long-awaited album appears to be limited to her home country.<BR><BR>The second place contestant, Jonathan Ross, was never heard from again, but this is probably because he has reincarnated as Nathan Ro. Ro has appeared on television in &#8216;Isidingo', MTV's &#8216;Stay Off the Grass' and is a band member of the rock group, Lonehill Estate.<BR><BR><STRONG>Shedding skin</STRONG><BR><BR>Eric Arubayi is doing very well for himself.<BR><BR>As I make my way up the stairs to his office, I admit that I am impressed by the effortless style of the place. I am ushered into his office, and his warm, infectious smile greets me. Yes, this is the face that launched a thousand girls screaming at their TV screens, fingers frantically jabbing at phones, voting for "Eric Idols."<BR><BR>After Eric lost the West African Idol title to Timi Dakolo, he took the smartest option open to a reality show contestant: He shed the "Idols" image and channelled his creative energy into establishing himself as an interior designer, stylist and boutique owner.<BR><BR>His outfit, Eromak, opened in October 2008, catering to the needs of "anyone who is stylish or wishes to be stylish." His clientele include singer Djinee, and his resum&#233; includes working with Yemi, the stylist on West African Idols, to dress the male contestants on MTN Project Fame.<BR><BR>It would have been easy for Eric to assume the role of Idols Pretty Boy, working the party circuit and not gaining any lasting experience or connections.<BR><BR>Such a tragic example is Bayo from Big Brother Africa 1. Many believe that Bayo did not represent Nigeria positively on the South African location, and perhaps they were correct in that assessment. Post-BBA 1 Bayo is flying so low beneath the radar that he hardly registers. This is odd as he credits himself as an actor, model, and designer-his outfit, Teddy Bear Stitches, produces no results in a Google search. Hmm! Still more odd, he is listed on film-blog website, Moviezen, but has no entries whatsoever. His housemate, Ugandan's Gaetano Kagwa, is the host of M-Net production, Studio 53.<BR><BR><STRONG>Nollywood calling</STRONG><BR><BR>According to Uti Nwachukwu, a reality show is one of the best and easiest ways to launch a career in television and film.<BR><BR>One only has to watch the less than stellar performances of Abby Plaatjies and Mwisho Mwampamba of BBA I in Nollywood productions.<BR><BR>Uti on the other hand has set his sight on Hollywood. Stifle the collective groan, Uti is even more impressive in person than on the screen. A thick tome on Africa is the first thing I notice as I enter the flat he shares with his older sisters.<BR><BR>Uti, an avid reader, is a bit of a reality show veteran. In 2007, he took part in the Next Movie Star after missing the auditions for Big Brother Africa II. The young actor decided to try again for BBA III and he entered the house the next year.<BR><BR>Post-Big Brother Africa Uti has been offered a few film scripts. Between graduating from the University of Benin and beefing up for roles, he is also focusing on music. Uti says he has a "jazz voice" but admits that until he gains clout, he will produce the gbedu music that is so popular right now. In December 2008, Uti partnered with Nollywood actress, Rita Dominic, as prince and princess of the Calabar Carnival. While at this festival, he also met the singer Timaya. The two are currently collaborating on a track.<BR><BR>Uti is obviously addicted to the TV. His paid appearances in Angola alongside housemate, Rico, are possibly to blame, and he says one of his goals is to appear on Oprah. And he knows that to get on Oprah's couch he has to keep working hard.<BR><BR><STRONG>The contracts that never were</STRONG><BR><BR>There are always awesome prizes for contest winners, including the ubiquitous lucrative record deal with an international label.<BR><BR>Somehow, these contracts never pull through. The third place winner on Project Fame, Dare Art Alade (now known as Darey) recorded his debut album under a Nigerian label, Storm, instead of the BMG contract he won.<BR><BR>For Idols West Africa winner, Timi Dakolo, it has taken almost two years for his debut to be ready, not on Sony BMG, the prize record label, but on 1976 Records (his Sony BMG contract ended in May 2008). According to a report on the African News Switzerland website, the delay was as a result of "inaction from the event organisers." Regardless of the contract disappointments, both Timi and Darey are proving to be successful singers with an increasing fan base.<BR><BR><STRONG>Reality contestants who warmed our hearts and made us laugh</STRONG><BR><BR>&#42; Jarry from Liberia amazed audiences with his powerful rendition of Jewel's &#8216;Foolish Games' during the early days of Idols West Africa. Unfortunately, he was voted out after that first appearance (and just try Googling him!)<BR><BR>&#42; Jerrilyn, also from Liberia, had a very touching story that increased in intensity as each episode of Idols West Africa aired. Against, all odds (including her not-so-good singing) she made it to the finals.<BR><BR>&#42; Jonathan Ross (a.k.a. Nathan Ro) stunned everyone when he performed Britney Spears' hit track &#8216;Toxic'. He came second-behind Lindiwe-and ahead of Darey.<BR><BR>&#42; Frank made a fleeting appearance in drag, on one of the Big Brother Nigeria episodes. It hardly registered, but Big Brother was watching...<BR><BR><STRONG>The fame addicts</STRONG><BR><BR>Kaffy: Kafayat Shafau won the Silverbird Danceathon and set a Guinness World Record, dancing for 55 hours 40 minutes, nonstop! She's gone on to become one of Naija hip hop's most prominent dancers, appearing onstage at shows and numerous videos, including P-Square's &#8216;Roll It'.<BR><BR>Ebuka Obi-Uchendu:<STRONG> </STRONG>After Big Brother Nigeria, Ebuka went on to sign deals with Guinness and Globacom, hosting some of their television shows, including Friend or Foe. He is also a columnist with Thisday and a regular at events and parties.<BR><BR>Azizat: In 2005, pint-sized Azizat Sadiq won the Amstel Malta Box Office (AMBO) talent show, beating 19 other contestants for the prize which included a part in the AMBO sponsored epic "Sitanda". She went on to star in the BBC's series "Wetin Dey".<BR><BR>Gideon Okeke: Another BBN alumnus, Gideon, is now a leading character in the M-Net production, "Tinsel".<BR><BR>Inyanya:<STRONG> </STRONG>Inyanya Mbuk won the first ever MTN Project Fame to hold in Nigeria. He has since released his single &#8216;Love Truly'. He is gaining a lot of exposure on Facebook.<BR><BR>Yaga:<STRONG> </STRONG>Yagazie Chukwumerijie did not win Survivor Africa in 2006, but he went ahead to represent Nigeria at the 2008 Beijing Olympics and won a bronze medal for taekwando. Chukwumerije was recently inducted into the Official Taekwondo Hall of Fame together with Mali's Daba Modibo Keita who is currently the World champion, making them the first Africans to be inducted into the Official Taekwondo Hall of Fame.<BR><BR>Eddie Madaki: In 2006, Eddie Madaki took part in Gulder's Ultimate Search, coming fourth place. He has since starred as Hakeem on BBC's "Wetin Dey".<BR><BR>Katung Aduak:<STRONG> </STRONG>Big Brother Nigeria winner, Katung, has moved to the U.S. to study film making, and directing. Katung is also an Ambassador for Peace, for the Youth Federation of Peace. In 2008, he was appointed the National Condom Ambassador by the National Action Committee on AIDS.</FONT><BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>the first time</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P>When was the last time you did something for the first time? I dont know about you but for me,it has been finally writing a blog. Many of my friend...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P>When was the last time you did something for the first time? I dont know about you but for me,it has been finally writing a blog. Many of my friends have been on my case for ages to write one but Ijust couldn't take the step. Now that I have, it's like coming home after ages. Wish me luck.</P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 07:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>What to do?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">I was talking to my friend the other day, and it was really long without seeing each other, like three months or so and believe me its really long </font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">I was talking to my friend the other day, and it was really long without seeing each other, like three months or so and believe me its really long not to see your friend while you live in the same ghetto, so that was long. okay i am not here to tell you how long is really long without seeing each other in the ghetto, am here to tell you what he is going through, so me and you can come up with what he will do, and this is what he told me after having the<BR>what we usually have as comrades.<BR>&#160;<BR>He met a very beautiful girl in a local food court where the girl was working and he vowed to get her, and he actually did get her. after the struggling with her to be his fianc&#233;, she finally agreed or in local slang 'akaingia box'. after courting her for some time, like two months. he took her home and asked her to live with him, and i guess that&#8217;s the best thing for him to have done because not many youths are getting into marriage these days and they end up becoming drunks or criminals. so he did the right thing even the guys mum was really proud of him.<BR>&#160;<BR>But this is the dilemma. after a month of nice living with the chick, he found out that the chick was four months pregnant. which means that pregnancy is not his considering they've been together for almost three months. and to top it all up his mother also knows the whole story as she was filled with it from the woman who had employed the girl at the food court.<BR>&#160;<BR>They guy tells me that, despite that she lied for some time about the 'hard stomach' as he puts it, you cant stay with someone for all that time and he Doesn&#8217;t detect something fishy about your abdomen. the guy says he still feels so in love with her, but his mother wont hear any of it and still he says its hard for him to raise a child he doesn&#8217;t even know who the father is.<BR>&#160;<BR>He is having a hard time making up his mind,what would you do in that situation? for me i would tell that chick to pack up and leave.</FONT><BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 16:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>13 Differences between Women and Men</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">1. <STRONG>NAMES:</STRONG><BR><BR>If Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth and Barbara go out for lunch, they will<BR>call each other Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth a</font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">1. <STRONG>NAMES:</STRONG><BR><BR>If Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth and Barbara go out for lunch, they will<BR>call each other Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth and Barbara.<BR><BR>If Mark, Chris, Eric and Tom go out, they will affectionately refer<BR>to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head and Scrappy.<BR><BR>2. <STRONG>EATING OUT:</STRONG><BR><BR>When the bill arrives, Mark, Chris, Eric and Tom will each throw in<BR>a $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have<BR>anything smaller and none will actually admit they want the change<BR>back.<BR><BR>When the women get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.<BR><BR>3. <STRONG>MONEY:</STRONG><BR><BR>A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs<BR><BR>A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.<BR><BR>4. <STRONG>BATHROOMS:</STRONG><BR><BR>A man has five items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream,<BR>razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Marriott.<BR><BR>The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337.<BR>A man would not be able to identify most of these items.<BR><BR>5. <STRONG>ARGUMENTS:</STRONG><BR><BR>A woman has the last word in any argument.<BR><BR>Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.<BR><BR>6. <STRONG>CATS:</STRONG><BR><BR>Women love cats.<BR><BR>Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.<BR><BR>7. <STRONG>FUTURE:</STRONG><BR><BR>A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.<BR><BR>A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.<BR><BR>8. <STRONG>SUCCESS:</STRONG><BR><BR>A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.<BR><BR>A successful woman is one who can find such a man.<BR><BR>9. <STRONG>MARRIAGE:</STRONG><BR><BR>A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.<BR><BR>A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.<BR><BR>10. <STRONG>DRESSING UP:</STRONG><BR><BR>A woman will dress up to go 4 shopping, to water the plants, empty<BR>the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, and read the mail.<BR><BR>A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.<BR><BR>11. <STRONG>NATURAL:</STRONG><BR><BR>Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.<BR><BR>Women somehow deteriorate during the night.<BR><BR>12. <STRONG>OFFSPRING:</STRONG><BR><BR>Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about<BR>dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods,<BR>secret fears and hopes and dreams.<BR><BR>A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.<BR><BR>13. <STRONG>FINAL THOUGHT:</STRONG><BR><BR>Any married man should forget his mistakes.<BR><BR>There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.</FONT><BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 18:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>20 Unspoken Rules to Live By</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">1. Never ask a woman if she wants to have sex by asking her if she wants to have sex.<BR><BR>2. It is more important to have good health insurance </font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">1. Never ask a woman if she wants to have sex by asking her if she wants to have sex.<BR><BR>2. It is more important to have good health insurance than good health.<BR><BR>3. Don't bluff more than once in a poker game with friends.<BR><BR>4. When one of the big bosses at work unexpectedly says something really cheery and friendly to you, he means absolutely nothing by it. Not even if he's your father.<BR><BR>5. Wear as much black as you can. It makes you look slimmer and cooler. But avoid black jeans.<BR><BR>6. When someone in your family is going through a divorce, always side with the blood relative.<BR><BR>7. Pointedly praising something unusual a person owns or has done will make you appear far smarter in his eyes than a 10-minute discourse on world events.<BR><BR>8. Yes, speak softly and carry a big stick. But don't mumble. And don't swing the stick.<BR><BR>9. The man who can't dance, can't converse, and can't provide psychological support to a woman is only half a man; the other half can't cook, can't clean, and badly wants a drink.<BR><BR>10. Do not get a visible tattoo larger than your penis.<BR><BR>11. Be aware that most people are operating on a very condensed version of the 10 Commandments: the part about murder.<BR><BR>12. There will be times when good neighbors are more important than a good neighborhood.<BR><BR>13. Telling a woman, "You're a great person," is taken as the lead-in to a confession that you don't love her.<BR><BR>14. Trying to "teach someone a lesson" never works.<BR><BR>15. Easy on the mayo!<BR><BR>16. Be careful about publicly discussing your hobbies, as most hobbies strike people as somewhat pathetic: most notably, collecting stamps, coins, or anything else, bird-watching, bowling, rockhounding, spelunking, table tennis, poetry, dog shows, chat rooms, polka music, yoga, herpetology, marathon running, and religion. The only hobbies you can safely own up to when among people you need to impress are fly-fishing and golf.<BR><BR>17. Never buy anyone a gift at a kiosk.<BR><BR>18. Never wear clothing that your coworkers avoid&#8212;the bow tie, the suspenders, the green suit. While you might think you're expressing your individuality, your colleagues will perceive it as a rejection of their group culture; you'll become a person who probably can't be trusted.<BR><BR>19. Do not bring lunch to work.<BR><BR>20. Rainbows are God's way of reminding us that beauty is an optical illusion, except in sports cars.</FONT></P><P><BR></P><P><a href="http://www.davie.ug311.com">Relationships Home Site&#160;</A></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 16:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA['Obama fingers' on sale in Germany]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><img src="http://www.foreignpolicy.com/images/090313_ObamaFingers.jpg" alt="obama_fingers" />In an attempt to profit off Obamamania, a German company has created a new food: Obama-Fingers.<BR><BR>The packaging says the product is "tender, j...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><img src="http://www.foreignpolicy.com/images/090313_ObamaFingers.jpg" alt="obama_fingers" />In an attempt to profit off Obamamania, a German company has created a new food: Obama-Fingers.<BR><BR>The packaging says the product is "tender, juicy pieces of chicken breast, coated and fried." A curry dip is included.<BR><BR>Putting the African-American president's name on fried chicken might not go over so well in the United States, but the company, Sprehe, said no racist overtones were intended.  After the company's sales manager said, "We noticed that American products and the American way of eating are trendy at the moment," she went on to say, "It was supposed to be a homage to the American lifestyle and the new U.S. president."<BR><BR>Finger-licking good, anyone?<BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 18:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>BBA3’s Lucille, DJ Cleo in secret romance?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size=2><img src="http://196.44.128.215:8080/informante/images/stories/news/bba.jpg" alt=lucille />IS Namibia&#8217;s Big Brother Africa 3 (BBA3) contestant Lucille Naobeb and South Africa&#8217;s DJ Cleo involved in a romantic relationship? That is the mill</font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size=2><img src="http://196.44.128.215:8080/informante/images/stories/news/bba.jpg" alt=lucille />IS Namibia&#8217;s Big Brother Africa 3 (BBA3) contestant Lucille Naobeb and South Africa&#8217;s DJ Cleo involved in a romantic relationship? That is the million dollar question that many fans want answered after the pair were spotted romancing in several nightspots and hotels both in Namibia and South Africa.</FONT></P> <P><font size=2>Fans feel it&#8217;s no coincidence that the duo composed a music playlist together after Lucille openly expressed how much she liked the DJ during her time in BBA3. But both the reality TV star and the prolific SA musician deny they are romantically involved. <BR>&#8220;We are just friends nothing else. I like his music, I am a big fan,&#8221; Lucille declared.<BR>The South African press has managed to smoke the pair out of their romantic hideout however, but DJ Cleo denies the romance allegations too. <BR>According to a Windhoek source close to Lucille&#8217;s family, the allure of the BBA3 beauty is the main reason DJ Cleo has been frequenting Namibia and staging shows in various nightspots around the country. <BR>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know why these so called celebrities like hiding their love life &#8211; what&#8217;s the big deal? They are doing it, they should say so,&#8221; the source said. <BR>On several occasions in the last few months, DJ Cleo visited the country to perform at Club La Dee Das in Windhoek, apparently to share his golden album with his &#8216;Namibian fans.&#8217;<BR>DJ Cleo also performed in the North and at Windhoek&#8217;s Club ObessionZ, when Gazza launched his album debut &#8216;Still the King&#8217; alongside Bleksem. <BR>On each occasion, Lucille and the SA artist were spotted kissing and cuddling. <BR>DJ Cleo met the Namibian belle at the launch of BBA3 in Lyndhurst, Johannesburg, Sunday World reports.<BR>Even though DJ Cleo and Lucille dismissed claims they were dating as &#8216;not true&#8217;, Sunday World reported it had it on good authority that the celebrity couple were having a dalliance. <BR>Sunday World revealed that DJ Cleo had his first romantic tryst with Lucille at The Dawn Hotel in Kempton Park, east of Jozi, just after she was evicted from the show in September. Lucille became the second evictee after Tanzania&#8217;s Latoya, a result that sent the love struck Uti of Nigeria on a furniture kicking rampage. &nbsp;<BR>Lucille and DJ Cleo were reported to have had yet another cosy meeting at The Dawn Hotel last Monday, after DJ Cleo returned home from an overseas gig. <BR>They met again at Primi Piatti in Rosebank, Johannesburg, on Tuesday afternoon. <BR>And last week Wednesday, the couple rocked up together at the SABC1 Jamboree at Picasso Restaurant in downtown Johannesburg. <BR>At the time of going to press Lucille was still in South Africa and her Namibian cell phone unreachable. The voicemail on DJ Cleo&#8217;s cell phone said that anyone trying to reach him should leave an SMS. </FONT></P> <P><font size=2></FONT>&nbsp;</P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:25:41 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>All Consuming...</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">I am a consumer.&#160;<BR>I was born in America to consume.&#160;<BR>It is my purpose, my goal and my very reason for living.&#160;<BR>If I don't consume, I will </font>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P><font size="2">I am a consumer.&#160;<BR>I was born in America to consume.&#160;<BR>It is my purpose, my goal and my very reason for living.&#160;<BR>If I don't consume, I will no doubt be consumed by someone or something else.<BR>When I am done consuming something, I throw it away.<BR>And buy another and often.<BR>That's what consumers do.<BR>Stuff is my reason for living<BR>Them what have the most stuff win, so I am told<BR>Stuff causes me to have to consume storage stuff<BR>Storage of stuff is part of my reason for consuming.<BR>"Look, look at all my stuff."<BR>"See how well it is stored."<BR>Without my stuff to store I am nothing<BR>I consume gizmos, gadgets and glitz<BR>I consume toys and fluff and that which I am told I simply have to find and possess<BR>I consume metal, wood and plastic<BR>Oh the plastic I consume in the stuff that I possess!<BR>From the Cabbage Patch to Tickle Me Elmo<BR>From Barbie to Bratz<BR>I search, I find, I fight, I pay...I consume.&#160;<BR>I'm a sheep<BR>A consuming, storing sheep<BR>I believe that If TV, radio or retailers say it, I believe it, that does it for me<BR>Consuming is my religion, my philosophy and my purpose<BR>It grounds me, distracts me, pets me and makes me feel better...for a short time<BR>And then I have to store it and protect it, so I can sleep knowing someone won't take my stuff<BR>Don't ever mess with my stuff.<BR>Somewhere it says, "A man's life consists not of the abundance of stuff that he has.." or something like that.<BR>Consuming is expensive<BR>Why did I buy that?<BR>Why did I need that?<BR>Where am I going to put that?<BR>I feel a bit empty<BR>I've been fooled<BR>So fool me once..<BR>Shame on....shame on...<BR>I don't think I'll ever get that saying right again.<BR>Me<BR>Fool me twice...<BR>shame on...shame on....<BR>You won't fool me again...<BR><BR>&#160;<BR><BR><BR>&#160;</FONT><BR><BR mce_bogus="1"></P>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 18:08:02 +0000</pubDate>
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